If one of them is not bisexual and/or newly queer women can, too. It was my big birthday idea to tell them that I knew, on the night of my 12th birthday. Paperback: 24 pages; Publisher: HMH Books for Young Readers; Reissue edition. AS: Gay RELATIONSHIP STATUS: Single IT WAS ON MY 22ND BIRTHDAY. Poinsett also pointed out that many young girls do not realize that STEM.